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Healing What Addiction Breaks, with Victoria Hardy

4/7/26

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ABOUT THE EPISODE

In Episode 11 of the 365 Proof Podcast, Daniel Phyfer and Courtney Milan sit down with Victoria Hardy for a deeply honest conversation about the pain addiction brings into families, and the hope that healing is still possible.

Victoria, a licensed marriage and family therapist and Certified Family Life Educator at Defining Wellness, shares why family work matters so much in recovery and why addiction is never just about one person. This episode explores the heartbreak, dysfunction, fear, shame, and emotional exhaustion that families often carry in silence, while also shining a light on the healing that can begin when people are finally willing to face the truth and do the work.

Together, they talk about codependency, broken trust, boundaries, grief, emotional sobriety, and the reality that recovery is not instant. It takes time. It takes humility. It takes courage. But this conversation is a powerful reminder that no family is too far gone, no person is beyond help, and no story is too broken for restoration.

If you are struggling, love someone who is struggling, or have ever wondered whether peace is possible after chaos, this episode will meet you right where you are. There is hope, there is help, and you do not have to walk through it alone.

Produced by Daniel Anderson at Audio Alchemy Productions.

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Meet The Hosts

Daniel Phyfer

Director of Business Development

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Daniel Phyfer is the Director of Business Development for Defining Wellness Centers, where he oversees all business development and marketing functions — from outreach and strategic partnerships to brand growth and community engagement. He blends his personal recovery journey with professional expertise to support people searching for a new way of life — whether they’re just beginning or rebuilding along the way. Daniel’s work is rooted in connection, authenticity, and a genuine belief that recovery is possible for anyone willing to reach for it.

Courtney Milan

Alumni Director

Courtney Milan has spent 29 years working in the mental health field and has a true heart for supporting people on their wellness journey. As the Alumni Coordinator, she focuses on building a community, creating meaningful ways for alumni to stay connected and making sure everyone feels supported after treatment. At home, Courtney is married to Stuart and have two daughters and a new edition, Hazel, the Doberman puppy.

Meet The Guest

Victoria Hardy

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